It’s the Process, not the Product!

I remember Kindergarten teachers telling parents, “It’s the process, not the product”, as we admired the children’s artwork.

I’m not quite sure how I felt about this comment, because I thought the creations were pretty amazing.  But I understand it now.  After working with children and their families for so long, I value that process more than ever.

If you have a child in preschool or elementary school, you’ve seen your fair share of artwork and projects that after a couple of months hanging on the frig, you’re not quite sure where to house them.  At this point, you are wondering why these pictures are attempted in the first place.

Sometimes it’s clear that an adult probably completed a majority of the glued bits, but that’s not the point.  We want to provide the opportunity for all kids to engage in a variety of creative endeavors.  Some children are more interested and more tolerant than others. Continually providing these materials so that kids can be creative is key.

For some families, it’s very difficult to watch as their children make messes with paints, glitter, and glue.  I personally have had years of creating everything from school paintings to science projects to 3D models of the human brain.  My dining room table and kitchen have basically been turned into science labs, art studios and test kitchens. I wouldn’t have it any other way.  Why?  Because everyone was engaged, creating, and left with a feeling of accomplishment.  It’s great to complete something made with your own hands.

 Even though it’s messy, time consuming, and possibly a “waste” of paint and glitter as they spill to the floor, you are laying a foundation for greater things to come.

When we unpack our Christmas decorations every year, one of our favorite things to do is to critique all of the wonderful decorations that were created between the ages 2-12.  I truly believe that it is well worth all of the messes and extra time that it takes.

 

You will never regret time spent with your child.  Don’t forget that this is a creative time for children.  It’s not important to use the “right” color or glue items evenly on the page.    I do understand that feeling of wanting to help a little too much. You may want the end product to look a certain way.  To this day, I still rearrange the Christmas tree ornaments (when no one’s looking) to where I think they look best.  It’s ok, don’t beat yourself up, none of us are perfect.

 

The goal for the whole process is to get involved. Use both hands to complete a task.  Experiment with new mediums and follow directions during clean up.  There are so many fun items that you can find in craft stores for sensory fun and creating.  For children who aren’t yet ready for the crayons and glue, start with some stickers or painting with water.  It’s fun to “paint” the house with water on a hot summer day.  The sun will soon dry it and then you can paint it again.

So my advice as a “seasoned” parent, is to make lots of messes and don’t hesitate to take a little more time to include every member of the family.  When making and decorating cookies, have a job for everyone depending on their age and abilities.  You will be happy that you did!

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